We say we want peace, yet when life finally becomes stable we can find ourselves restless, bored or searching for intensity. When chaos has become familiar, the nervous system can mistake activation for aliveness and predictability for emptiness.
Weaponised Trauma: When Pain Becomes Control
Unprocessed trauma doesn’t just live inside us; it can be turned outward, into control, avoidance, or even performance. This piece explores the hidden ways pain becomes power, and how we begin to heal without letting trauma lead.