Unprocessed trauma doesn’t just live inside us; it can be turned outward, into control, avoidance, or even performance. This piece explores the hidden ways pain becomes power, and how we begin to heal without letting trauma lead.
The Power of the Victim: When Pain Becomes a Weapon
Victimhood can be both real and misused. This article explores how unprocessed pain can flip into control, blame, or emotional manipulation and how to step out of the pattern.